Tenderness

Parquet Courts' song 'Tenderness' is a contemplative exploration of modern life's relentless pace and the yearning for a slower, more meaningful existence. The lyrics open with a metaphorical replacement of 'clock’s old stubborn hands,' symbolizing a desire to alter the rigid, fast-paced structure of contemporary life. The reference to the 'age of iron, steam and speed' highlights the historical shift from a slower, more deliberate way of living to the current era's frenetic tempo. The band suggests that there is 'romance in the slow dances,' emphasizing the beauty and value found in taking time to savor moments, contrasting sharply with the 'futile in haste' nature of rushing through life.

The song delves into the personal struggle against nihilism and societal expectations. The narrator admits to being 'outdone by nihilism' and feeling overwhelmed by 'other people’s expectations,' yet paradoxically continues to hand over their own expectations to others. This internal conflict reflects a broader commentary on the pressures of conforming to societal norms and the desire to break free from them. The line 'travel where you are, tourism is sin' suggests a call to find contentment and meaning in one's immediate surroundings rather than seeking fulfillment through external experiences.

'Tenderness' also critiques consumer culture and the superficial satisfaction it provides. The 'cheap odor of plastic' and the 'rush it feels fantastic' symbolize the fleeting pleasure derived from material consumption, which ultimately leads to a sense of emptiness, akin to a 'junkie going cold.' The song concludes with a plea for 'a little tenderness,' advocating for genuine human connection and empathy as antidotes to the alienation and dissatisfaction pervasive in modern society. Through its introspective lyrics and poignant metaphors, 'Tenderness' encourages listeners to slow down, embrace vulnerability, and seek deeper, more authentic connections in their lives.