Depende da Gente
Paula Fernandes
The Fragile Dance of Love and Responsibility
In Paula Fernandes' song "Depende da Gente," the lyrics delve into the complexities of love, responsibility, and the consequences of neglect. The song opens with a reflective tone, urging the listener to observe the remnants of a past relationship. The phrase "Detalhes de uma vida, páginas de amor" (Details of a life, pages of love) suggests a deep, emotional history that has been disregarded. The singer laments that the relationship was not valued, leading to its downfall, encapsulated in the line "Botou tudo a perder" (You threw it all away).
The song continues to explore the idea that love requires effort and commitment. Fernandes sings about the opportunities that time offers to those who wish to live and love intensely. The lyrics emphasize that the failure of the relationship was not due to a lack of love but rather a lack of effort and understanding from the partner. The line "Você nunca tentou" (You never tried) highlights this sentiment, pointing out that the partner did not put in the necessary effort to make the relationship work.
As the song progresses, it becomes a plea for introspection and change. The singer acknowledges the difficulties of love, describing it as an art that is complicated to master. However, she also presents it as an opportunity for growth and self-discovery. The lyrics "Viver é uma arte, amar é complicado" (Living is an art, loving is complicated) and "Pense bem no que quer" (Think carefully about what you want) serve as a call to action for the partner to take responsibility and make a conscious effort if they wish to rekindle the relationship. Ultimately, the song conveys that happiness and a successful relationship depend on mutual effort and understanding, encapsulated in the closing line, "A vida é pra tentar ser feliz" (Life is about trying to be happy).