Not One Of Us

Peter Gabriel's song 'Not One Of Us' delves into the theme of alienation and the human tendency to ostracize those who are different. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of exclusion, starting with the metaphor of 'water in a stranger's tear,' suggesting that even the most basic human emotions can be foreign and unrecognizable when they come from someone perceived as an outsider. The phrase 'a foreign body and a foreign mind' underscores the idea that no matter how similar someone might appear on the surface, deep-seated prejudices can prevent true acceptance.

The chorus, repeating 'You're not one of us,' drives home the message of exclusion. Gabriel highlights the superficiality of appearances with lines like 'You may look like we do, talk like we do,' but emphasizes that societal acceptance goes beyond mere appearances. This reflects a broader commentary on how communities often create in-groups and out-groups, using arbitrary distinctions to determine who belongs and who doesn't.

The song also touches on the concept of conformity and the safety it provides. 'There's safety in numbers when you learn to divide' suggests that people find comfort in aligning with the majority and distancing themselves from those who are different. Gabriel critiques this mindset by pointing out the twisted values that can arise from such division, urging for an open mind and a reevaluation of what it means to belong. The repetition of 'Not one of us' serves as a haunting reminder of the pain and isolation that comes from being perpetually seen as an outsider.