It'll All Work Out
Phoebe Bridgers
The Bittersweet Acceptance of Lost Love
Phoebe Bridgers' song "It'll All Work Out" is a poignant exploration of love, regret, and acceptance. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of a past relationship marked by both beautiful moments and painful disappointments. The imagery of the woman in faded jeans and soft black leather, with eyes as blue as the weather, evokes a sense of nostalgia and longing. This relationship, however, was fraught with missed opportunities and failures, as the narrator admits to not being there when needed most. The refrain, "That's the way it goes, it'll all work out," suggests a resigned acceptance of the situation, acknowledging that life moves on despite the heartache.
The song delves deeper into the complexities of the relationship, highlighting the times spent apart and together. The narrator's pledge to the woman for better or worse is overshadowed by the moments when he let her down. This admission of failure is met with a sense of inevitability, as the refrain repeats, reinforcing the idea that things will eventually work out, even if not in the way one might have hoped. The line, "Better off with him than here with me," indicates a recognition that the woman may find happiness elsewhere, further emphasizing the narrator's acceptance of the situation.
As the song progresses, the imagery of high winds, heavy rain, and rising water in the levee symbolizes the emotional turmoil and the passage of time. Despite these challenges, the narrator continues to think of the woman when the sun goes down, suggesting that the memories and feelings never truly fade. The repeated assertion that "it all works out" serves as a comforting mantra, a way to cope with the lingering pain and the realization that life goes on. Phoebe Bridgers' melancholic yet hopeful tone captures the essence of moving forward while carrying the weight of past love.