Would You Rather

Phoebe Bridgers' song 'Would You Rather' delves into the complexities of trauma, familial bonds, and the struggle for connection amidst chaos. The song opens with a game of 'Would You Rather,' a seemingly innocent activity that quickly turns dark as it reveals the protagonist's preference for drowning over burning. This stark choice sets the tone for the song, highlighting a deep-seated sense of despair and the difficult decisions one faces in the throes of emotional turmoil.

The narrative then shifts to a more specific incident involving an ambulance and a cop's accusation, suggesting a moment of crisis and misunderstanding. The protagonist feels like a 'can on a string,' a metaphor for feeling tethered yet distant, connected but not in control. This imagery underscores the struggle to communicate and connect with loved ones, especially when dealing with shared trauma. The mention of a 'suicide pact of our family and friends' further emphasizes the weight of collective despair and the desperate need to find a way out.

Throughout the song, Bridgers uses vivid imagery and metaphors to paint a picture of a relationship strained by external pressures and internal struggles. The line 'We have the same face' suggests a deep, possibly familial connection, while the scenes of violence and quarantine evoke feelings of entrapment and helplessness. Despite these challenges, the protagonist remains hopeful, waiting in the background and ready to reconnect. The song concludes with a sense of anticipation and resilience, as the protagonist looks forward to finding new ways to communicate and heal.