Donna In Costruzione
Pino D'Angio
The Ideal Woman: A Construct of Imagination
Pino D'Angio's song "Donna In Costruzione" delves into the concept of the 'ideal woman' through a blend of humor and social commentary. The lyrics describe a man who is metaphorically 'constructing' his perfect woman, piecing together attributes from various sources like magazines and posters. This construction is a satirical take on the unrealistic standards often imposed on women by society and media. The man in the song is tired of searching for an authentic woman who can make him lose his head and transform him into a 'real man,' highlighting the paradoxical and often contradictory expectations placed on women.
The chorus, repeating the phrase "Fare una donna come vuoi, fare una donna non si può" ("Making a woman as you want, making a woman is not possible"), underscores the impossibility of creating a perfect woman. This repetition drives home the message that the ideal woman, as constructed by societal standards, is an unattainable fantasy. The song critiques the superficiality of these standards, suggesting that true authenticity and connection cannot be manufactured or found in a checklist of desirable traits.
D'Angio's playful yet poignant lyrics also touch on the emotional labor expected from women. The ideal woman must be a friend, a lover, mysterious, faithful, and never banal. She must be delicate yet passionate, capable of evoking deep emotions while maintaining an air of mystery. This unrealistic amalgamation of traits serves to highlight the absurdity of such expectations and the pressure they place on women to conform to an impossible ideal. Through this song, D'Angio invites listeners to reflect on the nature of these societal constructs and the value of genuine human connection over superficial perfection.