¿Y cómo es él?

Raphael's song '¿Y cómo es él?' is a poignant exploration of heartbreak, jealousy, and acceptance. The lyrics depict a man confronting his partner about her new lover. He senses that she has something important to tell him and urges her to speak up, fearing that delaying the conversation might make things worse. This sets the stage for a deeply emotional narrative where the protagonist grapples with the reality of losing his beloved to another man.

The repeated question, '¿Y cómo es él?' (And what is he like?), reveals the protagonist's desperate need to understand the person who has taken his place. He inquires about the new lover's origins, interests, and the circumstances under which they fell in love. These questions are not just about curiosity but also about the protagonist's struggle to come to terms with his own inadequacies and the reasons for his partner's departure. The metaphor of the new lover as a 'ladrón' (thief) who has stolen a piece of his soul underscores the depth of his emotional pain and sense of betrayal.

Despite his anguish, the protagonist shows a remarkable level of acceptance and care for his partner. He advises her to dress well and take an umbrella, showing concern for her well-being even as she leaves to meet her new lover. This juxtaposition of jealousy and selflessness adds a layer of complexity to the song, highlighting the protagonist's internal conflict. He prepares to pack his bags, indicating his readiness to move on, yet he repeatedly asks the same questions, revealing his lingering confusion and heartache. Raphael's emotive delivery and the song's melancholic melody amplify the themes of love, loss, and the painful process of letting go.