El Lujo de Tenerte
Regulo Caro
Unrequited Love and Longing in 'El Lujo de Tenerte'
Regulo Caro's song 'El Lujo de Tenerte' is a poignant exploration of unrequited love and the pain of watching someone you cherish be with another person. The lyrics express the narrator's deep feelings of envy and regret as he observes the intimate relationship between his beloved and another man. The song's title, which translates to 'The Luxury of Having You,' underscores the idea that being with the loved one is a privilege that the narrator yearns for but cannot have.
The lyrics detail the physical closeness and affection that the other man gets to experience, highlighting the narrator's sense of loss and longing. Phrases like 'Que suerte tiene él' (How lucky he is) and 'El lujo de tenerte' (The luxury of having you) emphasize the value and rarity of such intimacy, which the narrator sees as a luxury just out of reach. This perspective paints a vivid picture of the emotional turmoil experienced by those who love someone they cannot be with.
Moreover, the song touches on themes of fate and destiny, suggesting that perhaps divine will or mere chance prevented the narrator from being the one with his love. The repeated line 'Tal vez no quiso Dios' (Maybe God did not want it) introduces a fatalistic element, adding depth to the narrator's resignation. The song encapsulates the heartache of unrequited love, the envy towards the one who has the love of the person you desire, and the painful acceptance of a love that will never be reciprocated.