Mudou Como?
Rico Dalasam
The Struggle of Change in a Toxic Relationship
Rico Dalasam's song "Mudou Como?" delves deep into the emotional turmoil of being in a toxic relationship. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of a partner who claims to have changed, but the protagonist remains skeptical. The repeated question, "Mudou como?" (How did you change?), underscores the doubt and frustration felt by someone who has been hurt repeatedly. The imagery of a heart as a prison cell and the mention of Stockholm syndrome highlight the psychological entrapment and the difficulty of breaking free from such a relationship.
The song also touches on the protagonist's attempts to find peace and escape the cycle of abuse. Lines like "Já tentei mil jeitos de cerrar a grade da cela" (I've tried a thousand ways to close the cell bars) and "Me zera, me encerra e acaba com isso, miséria" (Erase me, end me, and end this misery) convey a sense of desperation and the longing for liberation. The metaphor of a heart as a cell emphasizes the feeling of being trapped and the struggle to find a way out.
Rico Dalasam's poignant lyrics also reflect on the broader societal context. The mention of working two jobs and dealing with judgment at work highlights the external pressures and the lack of understanding from others. The song's raw emotion and candid portrayal of a toxic relationship resonate with many who have experienced similar struggles. The repeated refrain of "Gente igual você não muda!" (People like you don't change!) serves as a powerful reminder of the difficulty of expecting change from someone who has consistently caused pain.