We Got Used To Us

Riverside's song 'We Got Used To Us' delves into the emotional complexities of a relationship that has grown distant over time. The lyrics reflect a poignant journey of two people who once shared a deep connection but have now drifted apart. The opening lines set the tone by reminiscing about past promises and the gradual erosion of their bond. The repetition of 'we never talk when we fall apart' underscores the communication breakdown that has become a hallmark of their relationship.

The song explores the theme of emotional isolation, where both individuals have surrounded themselves with superficial friendships and distractions to mask their inner turmoil. The phrase 'one-way friendships and so-called friends' highlights the emptiness of these connections, emphasizing the lack of genuine support and understanding. The chorus reveals a sense of resignation and discomfort with the 'new us' and 'new life' they have adapted to, expressing a desire to escape the current state of their relationship.

As the song progresses, the imagery of 'silence fallen between' and 'all the doors are locked' paints a vivid picture of the barriers that have been erected between them. The fear of time and the deliberate maintenance of distance reflect their struggle to confront the reality of their situation. The lyrics suggest that they have become accustomed to this emotional distance, filling their inner void with 'little hates and so-called love.' The repeated plea of 'I don't want to be there where we are' conveys a longing for change and a return to a more authentic connection. The closing line, 'So walk away with me,' offers a glimmer of hope, suggesting that there is still a possibility for renewal if they can leave behind their current state of disconnection.