Still around
Robert Cray
The Lingering Ghost of a Broken Relationship
Robert Cray's song "Still Around" delves into the emotional turmoil of a relationship that has overstayed its welcome. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of a person waking up to the unsettling realization that their partner, whom they had hoped to part ways with, is still present. This presence is not just physical but also emotional, as the partner's continued existence in their life disrupts their peace and well-being. The morning setting, often associated with new beginnings, is ironically marred by the continuation of an unwanted chapter, highlighting the protagonist's frustration and sense of entrapment.
The repeated lines, "How many times must I tell ya' / I'm tired of you and everything you stand for," emphasize the protagonist's exhaustion and desperation for freedom. This plea for understanding and departure is met with a lack of emotional response from the partner, further aggravating the situation. The protagonist's lament, "Why can't you show some feeling? / Why can't you understand?" underscores the emotional disconnect and the one-sided effort in the relationship. The song captures the essence of feeling trapped in a cycle of unfulfilled promises and unmet needs, where the protagonist's attempts to move on are thwarted by the partner's lingering presence.
Cray's soulful delivery and the bluesy undertones of the song amplify the emotional weight of the lyrics. The repetition of the phrase "everything was wrong" serves as a powerful reminder of the protagonist's discontent and the pervasive sense of wrongness that permeates their life due to the unresolved relationship. The song is a poignant exploration of the struggle to reclaim one's life and peace of mind from the clutches of a toxic relationship that refuses to end, resonating with anyone who has experienced the pain of an unwanted emotional attachment.