That’s Just How It Goes

ROLE MODEL's song 'That’s Just How It Goes' delves into the bittersweet reality of relationships that have run their course. The lyrics poignantly capture the emotional turmoil of recognizing that the spark is gone but being afraid to move on. This fear of change and the pain of seeing an ex-partner enjoying life without you are universal experiences that many listeners can relate to. The song's candidness about these feelings makes it both relatable and cathartic.

The song also explores the aftermath of a breakup, where both parties engage in behaviors that are less about moving on and more about coping with the loss. The lines 'You'll sleep with friends of mine / I'll sleep with people I don't like' highlight the often self-destructive actions people take to fill the void left by a significant other. This mutual acknowledgment of the pain and the unhealthy ways of dealing with it adds a layer of depth to the song, making it more than just a breakup anthem.

ROLE MODEL's reflective tone in the lyrics, 'Every flame has the same sad ending / I stopped asking why,' suggests a resigned acceptance of the cyclical nature of relationships. This acceptance is not necessarily pessimistic but rather a realistic acknowledgment that not all relationships are meant to last forever. The repetition of 'That's just how it goes' serves as a mantra, a way to come to terms with the inevitable end of a relationship and the emotional journey that follows. The song's raw honesty and emotional depth make it a compelling exploration of love, loss, and the human condition.