The Struggles and Aspirations of a Domestic Worker in a Queer Household
The song 'Grelo' by Rose, a Doméstica das Bicha, offers a vivid and humorous portrayal of the life of a domestic worker in a queer household. The lyrics are filled with colloquial language and cultural references that paint a picture of the daily grind and the unique dynamics between the worker and her employers. The protagonist describes her job cleaning houses, dealing with the peculiarities of her employers, and the challenges she faces, such as working long hours and dealing with expensive items that she has to be careful not to break.
One of the central themes of the song is the aspiration of the queer individuals she works for to undergo gender-affirming surgery, specifically to have a 'grelo' (a slang term for clitoris). This desire is repeated throughout the song, highlighting the importance of gender identity and the lengths to which these individuals are willing to go to align their physical appearance with their gender identity. The repetition of the word 'grelo' underscores the significance of this aspiration in their lives.
The song also touches on the economic disparities and the sometimes exploitative nature of domestic work. The protagonist mentions being paid varying amounts for her work, from as little as one real to as much as three hundred. She also notes the high cost of the items she handles and the deductions from her pay for any damages. Despite these challenges, there is a sense of resilience and adaptability, as she learns English and navigates the complexities of her job. The song provides a humorous yet poignant commentary on the intersection of class, gender, and sexuality in contemporary society.
