Extrañandote
Rubby Perez
The Heartache of Absence in Rubby Perez's 'Extrañandote'
Rubby Perez's song 'Extrañandote' is a poignant expression of longing and heartache after the departure of a loved one. The lyrics convey a deep sense of loss and the difficulty of moving on when someone integral to one's happiness is no longer present. The title itself, which translates to 'Missing You' in English, sets the tone for the emotional journey the song takes the listener on.
The opening lines of the song reveal the singer's vulnerability and the profound impact the absence has had on their life. The metaphor of 'mendigo sonrisas' or 'begging for smiles' illustrates the struggle to find joy in everyday life without their significant other. The reference to 'me matan las horas' or 'the hours kill me' emphasizes the slow and painful passage of time. The song captures the essence of grief, where even the air feels heavy with sorrow and familiar places and jokes no longer bring comfort.
The chorus of 'Extrañandote' is a powerful declaration of the singer's state of being, living in a constant state of missing their loved one. The imagery of having 'tanto cielo' but being 'un ave perdida' (having so much sky but being a lost bird) suggests a sense of freedom that is paradoxically restrictive without the person they love. The repetition of 'extrañandote' throughout the song reinforces the persistent yearning and the inability to escape the memories of the past. Rubby Perez, known for his romantic ballads, delivers a performance that resonates with anyone who has experienced the pain of separation.