Don't Cry

Ruel's song 'Don't Cry' delves into the complexities of a tumultuous relationship, marked by emotional highs and lows. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of a relationship that has been on a repetitive cycle of conflict and reconciliation. The protagonist, who has been a constant emotional support for their partner, reaches a breaking point. The line 'You've been on and on again, and this time, I'm not listening' signifies a moment of realization and a decision to no longer engage in the same patterns of behavior. This decision is further emphasized by the repeated assertion that 'boys don't cry,' suggesting a struggle with societal expectations of emotional expression.

The song also touches on the theme of emotional labor, with the protagonist feeling like an 'inbox to your problems every weekday.' This metaphor highlights the one-sided nature of the relationship, where one person is constantly offloading their issues onto the other without reciprocation. The mention of 'fake fights' and the comparison to 'TV drama' underscore the performative aspect of their interactions, suggesting that the relationship has become more about maintaining appearances than genuine connection.

As the song progresses, the protagonist acknowledges their own efforts and the futility of continuing the relationship. The repeated refrain 'If it's over, then it's over' serves as a mantra for moving on and letting go. The song's title, 'Don't Cry,' and the repeated line 'boys don't cry' reflect the internal conflict of wanting to express pain and frustration while feeling pressured to maintain a stoic facade. Ruel's poignant lyrics and emotive delivery capture the essence of navigating emotional turmoil and the difficult process of ending a toxic relationship.