Love Don't

Ryan Griffin's song "Love Don't" delves into the complexities of a relationship that lacks the depth and commitment typically associated with true love. The lyrics paint a picture of a person who is settling for less than they deserve, engaging in a relationship that is convenient and perhaps physically satisfying, but emotionally unfulfilling. The song's protagonist is caught in a cycle of being let down and reaching out to someone who is only available on their terms, which is a far cry from the genuine care and presence that characterizes real love.

The chorus of the song is particularly telling, as it contrasts the actions of the person in question with what love should not be. Love is not about waiting anxiously for a call or text, nor is it about impromptu, late-night meet-ups that are likely fueled by loneliness or inebriation. Griffin is making a statement that these behaviors are placeholders for true intimacy and should not be mistaken for love. The repetition of the phrase "If you're thinking 'bout calling it love, don't" serves as a cautionary reminder to the listener to not confuse temporary affection with the real thing.

The song also touches on the societal pressures and expectations that can influence one's perception of a relationship. The mention of the mother's approval and the facade presented to the world suggests that there is more concern for appearances than for the actual quality of the relationship. Griffin's message is clear: love should be authentic and present, not a series of disappointing interactions masquerading as something more meaningful.