Things We Never Did

“Things We Never Did” by Sad Lovers And Giants is a poignant exploration of missed opportunities and the passage of time. The song delves into the emotional landscape of what could have been, reflecting on the unfulfilled potential of a relationship. The opening lines, “We would be ashes / We would be silent and old,” set a somber tone, suggesting a future where the vibrancy of youth has faded into quiet resignation. This imagery of ashes and silence evokes a sense of loss and the inevitability of aging, hinting at the wisdom that comes too late to change the past.

The second verse, “When we were dancing / I saw the look in your eyes / Now we are strangers / Lost in a sea full of sighs,” captures a moment of connection that has since dissolved into estrangement. The metaphor of being “lost in a sea full of sighs” beautifully illustrates the overwhelming sense of regret and sorrow that accompanies the realization of what has been lost. The dance, a symbol of unity and joy, contrasts sharply with the current state of being strangers, emphasizing the emotional distance that has grown over time.

In the final verse, the lyrics, “We would be traitors / We would forget we were young / We would be helpless / We are the kingdom to come,” suggest a betrayal of their younger selves and the dreams they once held. The notion of being “the kingdom to come” implies a future that is both inevitable and unchangeable, where the potential for greatness has been overshadowed by the weight of unfulfilled promises. This song serves as a haunting reminder of the importance of seizing the moment and cherishing the connections we have before they slip away into the realm of things we never did.