Spit Of You

Sam Fender's 'Spit Of You' is a poignant exploration of the complex relationship between a father and son. The song delves into the emotional turmoil and unspoken bond that often exists in such relationships. The phrase 'spit of you' is a colloquial way of saying that the son is a mirror image of his father, not just in appearance but also in behavior and emotional struggles. This resemblance is both a source of connection and conflict, as the son grapples with inherited traits and the weight of familial expectations.

The lyrics vividly describe the son's internal struggles, such as his constant stomach pain and emotional baggage, which he attributes to his father. The imagery of 'smashing cups off the floor' and 'kicking walls through' symbolizes the pent-up anger and frustration that both father and son experience but find difficult to express to each other. Despite being able to communicate with anyone else, the son finds it impossible to talk to his father, highlighting the emotional distance between them.

A particularly touching moment in the song is when the son recalls seeing his father in a vulnerable state, kissing a woman's forehead. This act of tenderness and the subsequent emotional reaction it evokes in the son underscores the deep, albeit complicated, love he has for his father. The son envisions a future where he will be in his father's shoes, kissing his own child's forehead, perpetuating the cycle of love and emotional struggle. This reflection adds a layer of inevitability and acceptance to the song, suggesting that despite the difficulties, the bond between father and son is enduring and profound.