Another One
Sam Smith
Finding Closure and Self-Worth in 'Another One' by Sam Smith
In 'Another One,' Sam Smith delves into the complex emotions that arise when an ex-partner moves on to a new relationship. The song opens with a tone of reluctant acceptance, as Smith congratulates their former lover for finding 'the one.' This phrase is repeated throughout the song, emphasizing the finality and acceptance of the situation. Smith acknowledges that they were never 'the one' for their ex, a realization that brings both pain and a sense of closure.
The lyrics 'God, I dodged a bullet, I ran fast right through it' suggest a sense of relief and self-preservation. Smith recognizes that staying in the relationship would have been detrimental to their well-being. This line underscores the importance of self-love and the decision to prioritize one's own mental and emotional health over a toxic relationship. The repetition of 'I love myself too much to fight you' further reinforces this theme of self-worth.
Despite the underlying pain, Smith expresses genuine happiness for their ex's new relationship. The lines 'Honestly, I'm happy for you, I do not wish you no harm' and 'Please treat him like he's someone' show a mature and compassionate attitude. However, there is also a cautionary note in the lyrics 'Move through him like water, love stains on the Sun, don't say I didn't warn ya, you'll never be enough.' This suggests that the ex-partner may have a pattern of moving quickly from one relationship to another, never finding true satisfaction.
'Another One' is a poignant exploration of the emotional complexities involved in moving on from a past relationship. It highlights the importance of self-love, acceptance, and the bittersweet nature of seeing someone you once loved find happiness with another person.