About You

San Cisco's song 'About You' delves into the complexities of a relationship where one partner is struggling with their own issues, and the other is left to navigate the emotional fallout. The lyrics paint a picture of confusion and emotional disarray, where words often fail to capture the true essence of what is happening. The line 'Cliches of what we say when words don't even matter' suggests that the conversations between the two are filled with empty phrases that don't address the real problems at hand. The singer expresses regret and a sense of loss, wishing they had never met the person causing them so much pain.

The chorus, 'This is not about me, it's more about you and what you're going through,' highlights the self-centered nature of the other person. The singer acknowledges that the issues in the relationship are not mutual but are more about the other person's internal struggles and choices. This realization brings a sense of helplessness, as the singer can only watch as their partner does what they want, regardless of the impact on the relationship. The repeated emphasis on 'you' underscores the imbalance and the emotional toll it takes on the singer.

The song also touches on themes of disillusionment and the search for authenticity. Lines like 'You're not looking for something true, you're selecting the proof to sue you' suggest that the other person is more interested in justifying their actions than in seeking genuine connection. The singer offers to take their partner 'out the stratosphere,' symbolizing a desire to escape the current turmoil and find clarity. However, the repeated refrain 'You're driving this one so take it slow' indicates that the singer feels powerless and is merely a passenger in this emotional journey. The song captures the pain of loving someone who is lost in their own world, leaving the singer to grapple with feelings of emptiness and hurt.