Es el Amante
Sandro
The Painful Farewell of a Forbidden Love
Sandro's song "Es el Amante" delves into the complexities and emotional turmoil of a forbidden love affair. The narrator begins by expressing the necessity of ending the relationship in silence, acknowledging the heavy price both have paid for their love. The lyrics reflect on the shared moments of bitterness and the realization that their love was a reckless act of folly. The narrator is acutely aware of the societal judgment and the inevitable gossip that would follow if they continued their relationship openly.
The song poignantly addresses the moral dilemma faced by the narrator, who has taken the love of a married woman. He recognizes the pain and suffering caused by their affair, yet he also acknowledges the deep love he feels for her. The narrator does not wish for her to leave her husband, understanding that doing so would only lead to more wounds and societal condemnation. The lyrics highlight the harsh reality that a woman who leaves her legitimate husband for another man will be subjected to relentless rumors and humiliations, despite outward appearances of acceptance.
In the end, the narrator decides to leave, not wanting to tarnish her life further. He accepts that he will be remembered only as "the lover," a term that carries a sting of shame and societal disapproval. The song concludes with a sense of resignation and sorrow, as the narrator reflects on the shared guilt and the inevitability of their separation. Sandro's emotive delivery and the poignant lyrics capture the essence of a love that is both passionate and doomed, leaving a lasting impression on the listener.