Someone You Hate

Sasha Alex Sloan's 'Someone You Hate' is a poignant exploration of the emotional turmoil that accompanies the end of a relationship. The song delves into the painful transition from being deeply loved to becoming a source of resentment. Sloan's lyrics are a raw confession of the inevitable drift that can occur between two people, even when promises of forever have been made. The narrative begins with a promise to care for a partner, symbolized by a journey into the dark, which metaphorically represents the unknown future of their relationship.

As the song progresses, Sloan reflects on the growing emotional distance between the couple. The imagery of 'sleeping back to back' during summer nights captures the coldness and disconnection that has crept into their once warm and intimate relationship. The repetition of 'growing apart' underscores the inevitability of their separation, despite the initial intentions of staying together. This emotional distance culminates in the painful decision to leave, transforming the narrator from a cherished partner into someone who is now hated.

The chorus poignantly captures the essence of this transformation. The shift from 'someone you held' to 'someone you hate' is a powerful depiction of how love can turn into animosity. Sloan's repetition of 'I threw it all away' highlights the regret and self-awareness of the narrator, acknowledging their role in the relationship's demise. The song's conclusion, with the repeated acknowledgment of broken promises and changed feelings, leaves listeners with a sense of melancholy and reflection on the fragility of love and the inevitability of change.