Don't Take It Personally (feat. benny blanco)

The song 'Don't Take It Personally' by Selena Gomez and benny blanco delves into the complexities of romantic relationships and the acceptance of fate. The lyrics are told from the perspective of someone in a new relationship who’s aware of a lingering presence from the past—perhaps an ex-girlfriend—still tied to her current partner’s life. The protagonist gently addresses this other person, asking her not to take it personally, because some things are simply meant to be.

Selena Gomez uses the track to explore themes of insecurity and jealousy—emotions that are all too common in relationships. The lyrics mention how the protagonist once felt threatened by the other woman’s beauty, which led her into self-destructive habits like excessive drinking and binge eating. However, she ultimately realizes that the love her partner feels for her is real, and she even wishes the other woman finds someone who’s perfect for her, too. This message of self-acceptance and mutual understanding sits at the heart of the song.

Musically, the collaboration with benny blanco delivers a smooth pop sound that complements the emotional depth of the lyrics. The repeated chorus 'Please don’t take it personally' underscores the idea that, despite the emotional challenges, holding on to resentment serves no one. Instead, the song encourages letting go and finding inner peace. In the end, 'Don't Take It Personally' is not just about love and relationships—it’s also a heartfelt reminder of the power of moving on and embracing emotional clarity.