It Ain't Me (feat. Kygo)

Selena Gomez's 'It Ain't Me,' in collaboration with Norwegian DJ Kygo, is a powerful anthem of self-empowerment and moving on from a relationship that has run its course. The song begins with a nostalgic reflection on a dream, where the singer reminisces about better times with her partner, sipping whiskey neat on the highest floor of The Bowery, a reference to a hotel in New York City. This dreamlike state is contrasted with the reality of the relationship's deterioration, as the partner begins to stay out all night, leading to a disconnect between the two.

The chorus poses a series of rhetorical questions, asking who will be there for the partner during tough times, such as after a night out or when they can't sleep. The repeated line 'It ain't me' serves as a firm declaration that the singer will no longer be the one to provide support and care. This refrain emphasizes the decision to no longer be responsible for the partner's well-being, highlighting a strong stance on self-respect and boundaries. The song's structure, with its catchy beat and repetitive chorus, reinforces the message of finality and the end of an enabling dynamic.

The bridge of the song brings a sense of closure, as the singer decides to take with her the good memories but leave behind the negative aspects of the relationship. The use of 'The Bowery' and 'whiskey neat' throughout the song serves as symbols of the past, while the word 'grateful' indicates a recognition of personal growth and the ability to move forward. 'It Ain't Me' resonates with listeners who have experienced the difficult decision to walk away from a relationship that is no longer healthy, offering a sense of solidarity and strength in the face of change.