O Namoro

Sérgio Godinho's song 'O Namoro' is a poignant narrative of unrequited love, persistence, and eventual acceptance. The lyrics unfold a story of a man deeply infatuated with a woman, who initially rejects his advances despite his numerous attempts to win her affection. The song begins with the protagonist sending a beautifully written, perfumed letter, praising the woman's radiant smile and soft skin. However, his poetic efforts are met with rejection, setting the tone for his subsequent endeavors to capture her heart.

The protagonist's persistence is evident as he tries different methods to express his love. He sends a heartfelt card, enlists the help of a mutual acquaintance, and even resorts to seeking the aid of a famous quimbanda (a traditional healer) to cast a love spell. Despite these efforts, the woman continues to reject him, leading to his despair. The imagery of him wandering disheveled and lost, like a 'monangamba' (a term referring to a type of African laborer), highlights his deep sense of loss and hopelessness.

The turning point in the song occurs at a dance hosted by Sr. Januário. Here, the protagonist encounters the woman again, and despite her initial amusement at his plight, they end up dancing together. The dance becomes a metaphor for their relationship, with its unpredictable and exhilarating movements. In a climactic moment, he asks for a kiss, and she finally says yes. This moment of acceptance is a powerful resolution to the protagonist's journey, symbolizing hope and the triumph of persistence in the face of repeated rejection.