Why

Shawn Mendes' song 'Why' delves into the complexities of a relationship where both parties have strong feelings for each other but are hesitant to acknowledge them. The lyrics describe a situation where two people are caught in a cycle of attraction and denial, unable to break through the barriers they've put up to protect themselves. The song captures the frustration and confusion that comes with this kind of emotional stalemate.

The narrative of the song suggests a deep connection between the two individuals, one that is so intense that it feels like a 'curse.' They are unable to move on to other relationships because no one else compares to the bond they share. Despite this, they continue to pretend indifference, a defense mechanism likely rooted in fear of vulnerability or rejection. Mendes expresses a longing to be open about his feelings, wishing he could admit that the person is 'all that [he] wants.'

The repeated question 'Why do we put each other through hell?' serves as a poignant refrain, emphasizing the self-inflicted pain of their situation. The use of 'hell' suggests a torturous emotional landscape, where the simple act of greeting each other casually ('you say hi like you just met me') is a painful reminder of their unresolved feelings. The song resonates with anyone who has experienced the turmoil of unspoken love, where pride and fear overshadow the desire for intimacy and connection.