Fair Game

Sia's song 'Fair Game' delves into the complexities of power dynamics and emotional vulnerability in romantic relationships. The lyrics reveal a deep-seated fear and fascination with a partner who represents a significant departure from past experiences. The opening lines, 'You terrify me / ‘Cause you’re a man, you’re not a boy,' set the stage for a narrative where the protagonist grapples with the intimidating presence of a mature and powerful partner. This partner is not someone she can easily manipulate or control, which is both frightening and intriguing to her.

The song explores the protagonist's internal conflict between her desire for control and her yearning for a genuine, equal partnership. Lines like 'I’ve always had the upper hand / But what good is intellect and airplay / If I can’t respect any man' highlight her realization that her previous relationships lacked mutual respect and equality. She acknowledges her tendency to dominate and manipulate, but also expresses a desire to change and engage in a 'fair game' where both partners are on equal footing.

Sia's lyrics also touch on themes of past trauma and emotional baggage. The verse 'You had been thrust into a history / That had not worked for me / Into a history from which I could not flee' suggests that the protagonist's past experiences have shaped her current fears and behaviors. Despite these challenges, she is willing to confront her fears and embrace vulnerability, as indicated by the repeated plea, 'Don’t leave me / Stay here and frighten me.' The song ultimately portrays a journey towards emotional growth and the pursuit of a balanced, respectful relationship.