Calypso Woman
Sidney Elliott
The Forbidden Love of Nobel and Nora
Sidney Elliott's song "Calypso Woman" tells a poignant story of forbidden love and the generational conflicts that arise from it. The song revolves around two characters, Nobel and Nora, who fall in love but face strong opposition from their families. The repeated plea to the 'Calypso woman' to give them a chance underscores the desperation and helplessness of the young lovers. The term 'Calypso woman' could be a metaphor for a wise, older woman, possibly representing the matriarchal figure in their community who holds significant influence over social norms and decisions.
The narrative begins with Nobel meeting Nora and being introduced to her family. However, Nora's mother immediately disapproves of Nobel, citing her knowledge of his parents as the reason for her objection. This highlights the weight of family reputation and history in their community, where past associations and judgments heavily influence present relationships. The repeated refrain of "Oh! No" emphasizes the finality and non-negotiable nature of the mother's decision.
The story takes a turn when Nobel introduces Nora to his mother, only to face similar rejection. Nobel's mother also disapproves of Nora, again based on her knowledge of Nora's family. This mutual disapproval from both families creates a sense of inevitability and doom for the young couple's relationship. Despite their families' objections, Nobel and Nora decide to elope to Gretna Green, a place historically known for runaway marriages. However, even in their attempt to escape, the song ends with the parents' persistent refusal to accept their union, repeating "Not my son, not my daughter" as a haunting echo of their disapproval.
"Calypso Woman" is a powerful commentary on the struggles of young love against the backdrop of rigid family expectations and societal norms. It captures the timeless theme of love versus duty, highlighting the pain and conflict that arise when personal desires clash with familial obligations.