They Don't Know

Simply Red's song 'They Don't Know' delves into the complexities and beauty of love, particularly focusing on the experiences of two lovers navigating their relationship in a bustling city. The song opens with the repeated line 'They don't know,' suggesting that outsiders often fail to grasp the depth and nuances of a romantic relationship. This sets the stage for a narrative that explores the intimate moments and dreams shared by the couple, who are described as 'kissing and walking, livin' out a dream.' The imagery of a 'crowded city scene' juxtaposed with the lovers' private world highlights the contrast between public perception and personal reality.

The song also touches on the theme of hope and the uncertainty of love's future. The lyrics 'Will fate force its hand, could it end it too soon?' reflect the anxiety that often accompanies deep emotional connections. Despite this uncertainty, the narrator expresses a strong belief in the couple's potential to 'learn so much' and 'love so much' together. This optimism is tempered by a cautionary note, urging listeners not to let others dictate their dreams or thoughts. The repeated advice 'Don't let anyone tell you not to dream' serves as a powerful reminder to cherish and protect one's aspirations and feelings.

A significant part of the song's message is the idea that love is a unique and personal experience, one that cannot be fully understood by those who have never loved. The line 'if you've never loved my friend, you may not know that broken hearts don't play the game' underscores the emotional risks involved in love. It suggests that those who have experienced heartbreak understand the stakes and the profound impact of love. The song concludes with a hopeful note, encouraging listeners to 'learn how' to navigate love's complexities, even if 'they don't know' how to do it yet. This ending reinforces the idea that love is a journey of growth and discovery, one that is deeply personal and often misunderstood by others.