Never Got To Say That I Love You (사랑한다는 흔한 말)
Sondia
Unspoken Love and Regret: A Heartfelt Confession
Sondia's song "Never Got To Say That I Love You (사랑한다는 흔한 말)" is a poignant exploration of unspoken emotions and the deep regret that follows missed opportunities. The lyrics convey a sense of disbelief and sorrow as the singer grapples with the end of a relationship. The opening lines, "끝이란 헤어짐이 내겐 낯설어 / 아직까지 난 믿을수 없는데 / 마치 거짓말인 것처럼" (The end, this parting, is unfamiliar to me / I still can't believe it / As if it's a lie), set the tone for a narrative steeped in denial and heartache.
The recurring theme of regret is evident in the chorus, where the singer laments not having expressed their love: "사랑한다는 흔한 말 / 한번도 해주지 못해서" (The common words 'I love you' / I never got to say them). This omission has led to feelings of loneliness and emotional exhaustion, as indicated by the lines, "혼자 서운한 마음에 / 지쳐서 숨어버렸니" (In my lonely, disappointed heart / Did you hide away, exhausted?). The singer's pain is palpable, and the lyrics suggest a desperate longing for reconciliation and a second chance.
The song also touches on the fear of abandonment, with the singer expressing a deep-seated anxiety about their partner leaving: "두려워 네가 떠날까봐" (I'm afraid you'll leave). This fear underscores the vulnerability and emotional turmoil that come with unspoken love. Sondia's emotive delivery and the melancholic melody further amplify the song's themes, making it a touching and relatable piece for anyone who has experienced similar feelings of regret and longing.