Not a Friend

Sorn's 'Not a Friend' delves into the complexities and disappointments of modern friendships, particularly those that exist more in the digital realm than in reality. The song opens with a poignant question, 'When is a friend not a friend?' This sets the tone for an exploration of superficial relationships where physical presence and emotional support are often lacking. The lyrics highlight the frustration of feeling connected through technology, yet abandoned when it truly matters. The metaphor of 'ghosting'—disappearing without explanation—captures the essence of these unreliable friendships.

The second verse introduces a personal narrative, where Sorn recounts a conversation with a supposed friend who has been 'unavailable.' This friend blames their absence on personal struggles, such as feeling trapped and paranoid. However, the underlying message is clear: excuses do not justify the lack of support. The imagery of 'walls around my mind' and 'paranoia eating me alive' adds depth to the emotional turmoil experienced by both parties. Yet, the singer remains skeptical, questioning the authenticity of the friend's excuses and their true intentions.

As the song progresses, Sorn's skepticism grows. The repeated refrain, 'When is a friend not a friend?' underscores the recurring theme of betrayal and disillusionment. The lyrics 'ripping out a knife outta my back again' vividly depict the pain of being repeatedly let down by someone trusted. The song's conclusion leaves listeners pondering the nature of true friendship and the importance of mutual support and honesty. Sorn's 'Not a Friend' serves as a powerful reminder to evaluate the authenticity of our relationships and to seek out those who genuinely stand by us in times of need.