What I Miss

Stefanie Sun's song 'What I Miss' delves deep into the emotional turmoil and nostalgia that follows the end of a meaningful relationship. The lyrics are a poignant exploration of the lingering feelings and unanswered questions that haunt someone after a breakup. The song opens with the protagonist questioning why a girl sent her a message and why her partner remains silent and unresponsive. This sets the tone for a narrative filled with confusion and a desperate need for closure.

The recurring theme of nostalgia is evident as the protagonist reminisces about the happier times in the relationship. She recalls specific memories like birthdays, songs, and starry nights, which symbolize the intimacy and warmth they once shared. These memories are contrasted with the present reality of emotional distance and unspoken words. The lyrics 'I miss the times when we could talk about anything' and 'I miss the impulse to love you after a fight' highlight the longing for the emotional connection that has been lost.

The song also touches on the complexities of pride and self-respect in relationships. The protagonist acknowledges that self-esteem often leads people to pretend they understand or are okay, even when they are hurting deeply. This is encapsulated in the lines 'Self-esteem often drags people, making love go through twists and turns.' The song's emotional depth is further amplified by Stefanie Sun's heartfelt delivery, making 'What I Miss' a relatable anthem for anyone who has experienced the pain of lost love and the bittersweet nature of cherished memories.