Selfish

SVEA's song 'Selfish' delves into the often misunderstood concept of self-care and self-prioritization. The lyrics challenge the negative connotations associated with being labeled a narcissist or selfish. Instead, SVEA reclaims these terms, suggesting that focusing on oneself is not inherently negative but rather a necessary step for personal growth and healing. The repetition of 'It doesn't mean that I'm a narcissist' and 'It doesn't mean that you're my enemy' underscores the idea that self-care does not equate to selfishness or hostility towards others.

The song also explores the aftermath of a codependent relationship. SVEA sings about the relief and clarity that come with shedding the weight of such a relationship. The lines 'Feels like the worst is over, weight of my shoulders' and 'And now my heart is sober from you' illustrate a sense of liberation and newfound emotional sobriety. This shift allows the artist to focus on herself, breaking free from the patterns of bending and breaking for someone else. The chorus emphasizes the importance of playing by heart and not mind, suggesting a more intuitive and self-respecting approach to life.

'Get a little selfish' becomes a mantra for self-empowerment. SVEA acknowledges that this shift might be perceived as tough or narcissistic, but she frames it as a necessary act of self-preservation. The song encourages listeners to prioritize their well-being without guilt or shame. By repeating the phrase 'And get a little selfish,' SVEA reinforces the message that self-care is a vital and positive practice. The song ultimately serves as an anthem for anyone struggling to balance their needs with the demands of others, advocating for a healthier, more self-focused approach to life.