How You Gonna
Sydney Renae
The Heartache of Unreciprocated Love in Sydney Renae's 'How You Gonna'
Sydney Renae's 'How You Gonna' is a poignant exploration of the feelings of betrayal and heartache that come with a one-sided relationship. The song begins with the artist reflecting on the past, wishing she could go back to the day they met and make different choices. She expresses regret for allowing the relationship to progress, indicating that if she had known the outcome, she would have kept her distance from the start. The lyrics suggest a deep emotional investment on her part, which was not reciprocated by her partner.
The chorus of the song is a powerful expression of disbelief and pain. Sydney Renae confronts her partner about their sudden change in behavior, questioning how they could leave after she had been so open and vulnerable. The repetition of 'How you gonna act like that?' underscores the shock and confusion she feels. The artist's vulnerability is further highlighted by her admission of having shared her true self and deepest feelings, only to be met with indifference and abandonment.
Towards the end of the song, Sydney Renae begins to find strength in her resolve. Despite the hurt, she wishes her former partner well, suggesting a sense of closure and the beginning of healing. She vows to never put a man before herself again, indicating personal growth and self-preservation. The song ends on a note of acceptance, with the realization that her partner was not capable of the love she deserved. 'How You Gonna' is a narrative of self-discovery through the pain of unrequited love, and the journey towards self-respect and moving on.