Damages

Tems' song 'Damages' is a poignant reflection on growth, self-reliance, and the decision to move beyond toxic relationships. The lyrics convey a narrative of a person who has matured from a 'new youngie' to someone who has experienced life and its challenges. The repeated refrain 'I'm done with it now, no more damages' serves as a powerful declaration of breaking free from the cycle of emotional harm and asserting one's independence.

The song's verses explore the dynamics of a relationship where the other party is seen as unreliable and possibly manipulative ('Surely you were tryna run on me'). Tems expresses a desire to escape the drama and the negative impact it has had on her life. The use of phrases like 'Open your eyes' and 'Can you be wise' suggests a call for the other person to recognize their behavior and its consequences. However, the overarching message is one of self-empowerment, as Tems decides to take control of her life and not allow herself to be subjected to 'damages' anymore.

Culturally, 'Damages' resonates with many listeners who have experienced similar situations. Tems, a Nigerian singer known for her unique blend of soulful melodies and Afrobeat rhythms, taps into universal themes of personal growth and resilience. The song's relatability and Tems' emotive delivery make it an anthem for those who are on a journey to reclaim their power and move forward with their lives, leaving behind the hurt and 'damage' of the past.