Bottled Up

Tender's song 'Bottled Up' delves into the complexities of internal struggles and the difficulty of expressing one's emotions. The recurring phrase 'Nobody needs to know' highlights the protagonist's reluctance to share their inner turmoil with others. This secrecy creates a sense of isolation, as the individual grapples with their thoughts and feelings alone. The lyrics suggest a battle between the mind and the heart, where the protagonist tries to convince themselves that keeping everything bottled up is the best course of action.

The song also touches on the theme of finding solace in another person. The lines 'You are my peace of mind, got the best from you' and 'A steady hand that guides me through' indicate that the protagonist finds comfort and stability in a significant other. However, this relationship is not without its challenges. The metaphor of a 'rough sea lacking harmony' suggests turbulence and conflict, while the 'gentle before the break' implies a temporary calm before inevitable emotional upheaval. The protagonist's struggle to balance their own thoughts and emotions with the support they receive from their partner is a central theme in the song.

Additionally, 'Bottled Up' explores the feeling of loneliness even in the presence of others. The line 'Feel so alone, standing in a crowded place' captures the paradox of feeling isolated despite being surrounded by people. This sentiment is further emphasized by the protagonist's desire to understand others' feelings and experiences, as expressed in 'What I'd give to know their names and how they feel.' The song paints a vivid picture of the internal conflict and the yearning for connection that many people experience but often keep hidden from the world.