Nadir

Tender's song 'Nadir' delves into the complexities and emotional turmoil of a deteriorating relationship. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of two individuals who have reached a breaking point, acknowledging that their connection was never meant to last. The metaphor of an 'empty glass' suggests a relationship devoid of substance and fulfillment, highlighting the superficiality and pretense that often accompany such unions. The line 'put your face on and smile when they talk to you' underscores the facade maintained for the sake of appearances, despite the underlying dissatisfaction.

The song's chorus, 'This is our Divide,' serves as a poignant declaration of the inevitable separation. The fear of staying together and the potential for holding grudges is palpable, reflecting the internal conflict and the recognition that parting ways might be the healthiest option. The lyrics 'I hate it when you touch me but I kept it under wraps' and 'Get bored during foreplay and I think we’re getting fat' reveal the deep-seated resentment and disconnection that have taken root, making it clear that the relationship has become more of a burden than a source of joy.

As the song progresses, there is a sense of reluctant acceptance and a glimmer of hope for the future. The lines 'You’ll be happy over time, thank fuck for our decline' suggest that both parties will eventually find happiness apart, even if the process is painful. The repeated acknowledgment of 'dirty beds and motels' symbolizes the transient and unfulfilling nature of their bond. Ultimately, 'Nadir' captures the raw and honest emotions of a relationship's end, emphasizing the importance of recognizing when it's time to let go and move on for the sake of personal growth and well-being.