Me & Me

The Beaches' song 'Me & Me' is a powerful anthem of self-love and independence. The lyrics tell the story of a woman who has experienced significant emotional turmoil, symbolized by her crying in a bathtub for a year and a half. This imagery sets the stage for her transformation and newfound strength. The turning point comes on New Year's Eve, a moment often associated with new beginnings, where she rejects societal expectations by literally punching them in the face. This act of defiance signifies her refusal to conform to the traditional narrative that one must find a romantic partner to be complete.

The song critiques the societal pressure to find a romantic partner, as highlighted in the lines, 'Everybody's gotta find somebody / That's the point in every movie.' The protagonist rejects this notion, finding empowerment in her own company. The chorus, 'Me and me, table for me and me / Hanging with me and me, finally free,' celebrates her decision to prioritize her own happiness and well-being over societal expectations. The repetition of 'me and me' emphasizes her commitment to self-love and independence.

The lyrics also address the toxic relationships many women endure, questioning whether it's better to be in a bad relationship or to enjoy life with friends and self-contentment. The protagonist concludes that she would rather be alone than with 'ninety-nine percent of all men,' finding peace and zen in her own company. This message is a bold statement about the value of self-respect and the joy of being comfortable in one's own skin. The song's defiant tone and catchy melody make it an empowering anthem for anyone who has ever felt pressured to conform to societal norms about relationships.