And Then You Kissed Me

The Cardigans' song 'And Then You Kissed Me' delves into the complex and often contradictory nature of love. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of a relationship that is both intoxicating and tumultuous. The opening lines suggest a sense of awe and admiration for the partner, who stands out from previous lovers. The metaphor of a 'halo around my eye' hints at a divine or otherworldly quality, yet this is juxtaposed with the physical and emotional impact of love, described as a powerful force that 'hit me like never before.'

As the song progresses, the theme of love as a sport or game becomes more pronounced. The narrator acknowledges the competitive and sometimes aggressive aspects of love, pushing their partner 'a little bit more.' This idea is further explored through the imagery of bruises and blood, symbolizing the pain and sacrifice that often accompany deep emotional connections. The repeated references to 'blue, blue, black and blue' and 'red blood sticks like glue' emphasize the physical and emotional toll of love, while also highlighting its addictive and consuming nature.

The chorus, with its repeated lines of being 'hit' and 'punched' in the heart, underscores the violent and unpredictable aspects of love. Yet, despite the pain, there is a sense of longing and desire for more, as evidenced by the lines 'you haunt me with your violent heartbeat at night' and 'you strike me with your silence.' The song captures the duality of love—its ability to bring both immense joy and profound pain. The final lines, 'And then you kissed me... And then you hit me...' encapsulate this paradox, leaving the listener with a haunting and thought-provoking portrayal of love's complexities.