Natural Affair

The Growlers' song 'Natural Affair' delves into the complexities and contradictions of love, family, and societal roles. The lyrics paint a picture of a dysfunctional yet traditional family, highlighting the blend of old and new values. The phrase 'Love is old and wild and will never die' suggests that despite the chaos and challenges, love remains a constant, enduring force. The song also touches on the overwhelming nature of modern life, where insatiable desires and the need for validation are ever-present. The idea that 'Even heaviness is something that you learn' implies that the burdens of life and love are inevitable, but they also teach resilience.

A recurring theme in the song is the contrast between genders and societal expectations. The line 'Boys will be boys and get away with murder' juxtaposed with 'Girls will rule the world, it's true' reflects the ongoing struggle for gender equality and the shifting dynamics of power. The lyrics question the fairness of the world, encapsulated in the line 'If the world is round, how come it's upside down?' This metaphor suggests a sense of disorientation and confusion in navigating life's complexities.

The song also explores the idea of individuality and self-awareness. The lines 'Every loner knows how green the grass will grow' and 'You're a hardened soul and not a piece of clay' emphasize the importance of personal growth and the recognition of one's unique path. The repeated refrain 'Every lover ends up a psycho, but it's just a natural affair' underscores the inherent madness in love and relationships, suggesting that despite the chaos, these experiences are a natural part of life. The Growlers use a mix of humor, irony, and raw honesty to convey the message that life and love are inherently messy, but they are also what make us human.