Everything I'm Not

The Veronicas' song 'Everything I'm Not' is a powerful anthem of self-acceptance and the realization of one's worth. The lyrics tell the story of a person who has been trying to change themselves to fit the expectations of their partner. The opening lines, 'Oh no, don't go changing / That's what you told me from the start,' set the stage for the internal conflict the protagonist faces. They initially believed their partner wanted something different, but soon realized that these expectations were unrealistic and damaging.

The chorus, 'I was losing myself to somebody else / But now I see / I don't wanna pretend, so this is the end / Of you and me,' highlights the turning point where the protagonist decides to stop pretending and end the relationship. This decision is fueled by the recognition that the person their partner wants is 'tearing us apart' because 'she's everything / Everything I'm not.' This line underscores the theme of self-acceptance, as the protagonist acknowledges that they cannot and should not try to be someone they are not.

The song also touches on the idea of independence and self-reliance. Lines like 'It's not like I need somebody / Tellin' me where I should go at night' and 'I'm not going anywhere with you tonight / 'Cause this is my life' emphasize the protagonist's newfound strength and determination to live life on their own terms. The Veronicas use this song to convey a message of empowerment, encouraging listeners to embrace their imperfections and reject any relationship that demands they change who they are.