Stay Over

Tove Lo's 'Stay Over' is a poignant exploration of vulnerability, intimacy, and the complexities of moving on from past relationships. The song opens with a vivid scene where the protagonist and her partner share a birthday kiss and a pill, setting the stage for a night of emotional and physical connection. The lyrics reveal that the partner has recently gone through a difficult breakup, described metaphorically as a 'war' that has left them emotionally scarred. Tove Lo's character offers solace and a chance to heal, suggesting that they can find freedom and comfort in each other's company.

The chorus, with its repeated plea to 'stay over,' underscores the protagonist's desire for the partner to remain close, both physically and emotionally. The lines 'Already deep in my bed, baby / Why don't you stay over?' highlight the immediacy and intensity of their connection. Despite acknowledging that their relationship is moving quickly, the protagonist believes that what they share is unique and worth pursuing. This urgency is further emphasized by the repetition of 'stay, stay, stay,' which conveys a sense of longing and hope.

Throughout the song, Tove Lo addresses the partner's hesitations and fears, urging them not to back away from the intense emotions they are experiencing. The bridge, with its lines 'Don't back away from this, don't back away / I know it's intense losing your senses in this love,' captures the essence of the song's message: embracing vulnerability and taking a chance on new love, even when it feels overwhelming. 'Stay Over' is a testament to the healing power of connection and the courage it takes to open up to someone new after being hurt.