How to Stay With You

Troye Sivan's 'How to Stay With You' delves into the complexities of love, longing, and the uncertainty that often accompanies romantic relationships. The song's lyrics paint a vivid picture of a relationship that is both cherished and fraught with challenges. Sivan uses metaphors like 'cut my garden down' to symbolize the sacrifices and changes one might endure for love, even when the results are not immediately visible or fruitful. This line suggests a sense of loss or emptiness, yet it is tempered by the hopeful notion that 'it's the thought that counts,' indicating that the effort and intention behind actions in love are what truly matter.

The song also explores the theme of distance and the hope for a future where the lovers can be closer, both physically and emotionally. Lines like 'Wish you lived a little closer' and 'Maybe when we're a little older we can set up shop' reflect a longing for a more stable and permanent connection. Sivan's mention of family members, such as his brother and mother, adds a layer of personal intimacy, showing that the relationship is significant enough to be shared with loved ones, even if they don't understand it in the same way he does.

A recurring motif in the song is the struggle with time and decision-making. Sivan admits to feeling 'a little bit fucked on this' and 'a little bit out of time,' highlighting the pressure and confusion that can come with trying to maintain a relationship. The repeated plea for 'one more kiss' signifies a desire to hold on to the present moment, despite the uncertainties of the future. The song's conclusion, with its repetition of 'Startin' again when I got all I wanted,' captures the cyclical nature of love and the emotional toll it can take, leaving the listener with a sense of both hope and melancholy.