Regra Três
Vinicius de Moraes
The Fragility of Forgiveness in 'Regra Três'
Vinicius de Moraes' song 'Regra Três' delves into the complexities of relationships, particularly focusing on the theme of forgiveness and its limits. The lyrics tell the story of a woman who has endured repeated disappointments and betrayals from her partner. The phrase 'abusou da regra três' suggests that the man has taken advantage of a certain rule or principle, where 'less is more,' implying that he has consistently given less effort and care, expecting it to be sufficient. This repeated behavior has led to the woman's emotional exhaustion and eventual decision to leave.
In the beginning, the woman chooses to stay despite her tears, holding onto the happy moments that have left deep roots in her heart. However, as time passes, her hope diminishes, and she realizes that forgiveness has its limits. The line 'o perdão também cansa de perdoar' poignantly captures the idea that even the most forgiving hearts can grow weary of constant hurt. This reflects a universal truth about human relationships: there is a breaking point where even the strongest bonds can no longer withstand the strain of repeated pain.
The song concludes with a sense of inevitability and resignation. The imagery of the 'casa cai' (house falling) symbolizes the collapse of their relationship. The advice to 'deixe a lâmpada acesa' (leave the light on) and keep a drink nearby suggests that the man will eventually face his own sorrow and regret. This ending serves as a reminder that actions have consequences, and the emotional toll of one's behavior will eventually catch up with them. Vinicius de Moraes masterfully uses simple yet profound language to convey the delicate balance of love, forgiveness, and the eventual breaking point in relationships.