Como Decirte No
Franco De Vita
The Heart's Dilemma: Franco De Vita's 'Como Decirte No'
Franco De Vita's song 'Como Decirte No' is a poignant exploration of the struggle one faces when trying to let go of a deep-seated love. The lyrics convey the internal conflict of the narrator, who knows that saying 'no' to this love is a lie because it's not what they truly feel. The song captures the essence of being unable to erase someone from one's dreams and memories, even when knowing it might be the healthier choice.
The recurring theme in the song is the heart's refusal to accept the end of a relationship. The narrator speaks of attempting to escape, to remove themselves from the story of this love, but the heart doesn't understand logic or numbers; it doesn't differentiate between being alone or with someone—it simply wants to hold on. This emotional tug-of-war is depicted through the metaphor of a dance ('si me bailas en los sesos') and the physical impact of love ('si te calaste hasta en mis huesos'), illustrating how deeply the other person is ingrained in the narrator's being.
Ultimately, the song suggests that the heart would rather share and continue dreaming, living, and hoping that things will change, rather than face the pain of loss. This sentiment is encapsulated in the line 'Ya es muy tarde para regresar,' indicating that it's too late to turn back, and the narrator is resigned to continue in this state of limbo, unsure of when or if they'll be able to move on. 'Como Decirte No' is a testament to the enduring power of love and the difficulty of moving past a relationship that has left an indelible mark on one's heart.