Hurts Me

Wallows' song 'Hurts Me' delves into the complexities of emotional pain and self-awareness following a breakup. The lyrics reflect a journey of introspection and the struggle to reconcile feelings of loss and self-worth. The opening lines, 'Haven't talked in months / I knew it'd be tough,' set the stage for a narrative of separation and the ensuing emotional turmoil. The singer questions whether they gave enough to the relationship and acknowledges a deeper understanding of themselves that their former partner could never fully grasp.

The chorus, with its repeated lines 'I won't lie / I don't need it 'cause it hurts me,' captures the internal conflict of wanting something that ultimately causes pain. This duality is further emphasized by the lines 'I'm obsessed when I don't have it,' highlighting the paradox of craving what is harmful. The song's structure, with its cyclical repetition, mirrors the repetitive nature of these conflicting emotions, suggesting a struggle to break free from the cycle of hurt.

In the second verse, the lyrics 'Losing control / I start to fold / Karma for heartbreak is really taking its toll' convey the inevitable collapse under the weight of unresolved emotions. The mention of 'karma for heartbreak' suggests a sense of inevitability and consequence, as if the pain is a form of cosmic retribution. The song concludes with a resigned acceptance, 'Better to break than bend again / Heal up the wounds that did you in,' indicating a desire to move forward and heal, even if it means enduring more pain in the process. Wallows' 'Hurts Me' is a poignant exploration of the delicate balance between self-preservation and the longing for connection, ultimately advocating for self-care and emotional resilience.