You (Show Me Where My Days Went)

Wallows' song "You (Show Me Where My Days Went)" delves into the profound impact of love and companionship on one's sense of purpose and direction. The lyrics reflect a journey of self-discovery, where the protagonist grapples with feelings of wasted time and unfulfilled expectations. The opening lines, "Is my life / All wasted nights? / This isn't what I had in mind," set the tone for a reflective and introspective narrative. The protagonist questions the value of their past experiences and contemplates the necessity of having someone to share their life with.

As the song progresses, the arrival of a significant other brings clarity and meaning to the protagonist's life. The lines, "When you came along / I knew what was wrong / If you want to know exactly what I've missed / It's you," highlight the transformative power of love. The repeated refrain, "You're what I've been chasing / Show me where my days went," underscores the idea that the presence of this person has given the protagonist a newfound sense of purpose and direction. The metaphor of chasing someone to find where one's days went suggests that love has filled the void and provided a sense of fulfillment that was previously missing.

The song also touches on themes of fear and vulnerability. The protagonist admits to having deflected and feared the passage of time, but this changes with the presence of their significant other. The lines, "I'm not afraid of time with you / When I reflect / I used to deflect / In fear of what more years would do," reveal a shift in perspective. Love has not only given the protagonist a sense of purpose but also alleviated their fears about the future. The song ultimately celebrates the transformative and healing power of love, emphasizing how it can bring clarity, confidence, and a sense of fulfillment to one's life.