Getting Even

White Lies' song 'Getting Even' delves into the complex emotions that arise from a tumultuous relationship. The lyrics explore themes of forgiveness, resentment, and the internal conflict that comes with trying to move past hurtful experiences. The opening lines set the stage for a narrative of emotional recklessness and the consequences of such actions. The singer reflects on a life spent avoiding meanness, only to find themselves in a situation where they must confront these very feelings.

The chorus emphasizes the futility of seeking revenge or 'getting even.' The singer urges their partner to listen to reason, suggesting that dreams of retribution are empty and unfulfilling. Instead, they propose forgiveness and the possibility of forgetting past grievances. This idea is reinforced with the line, 'I can forgive and we can forget, even after all this love and other nonsense we've made,' highlighting the absurdity and complexity of their shared experiences.

As the song progresses, the imagery of a lingering moon and the cessation of kisses symbolizes the fleeting nature of their connection. The singer grapples with the 'wrestling of conscience,' torn between the desire for freedom and the pain of loneliness. The repeated refrain, 'If you're getting even, you're getting even,' serves as a reminder that holding onto resentment only perpetuates the cycle of hurt. Ultimately, the song suggests that true liberation comes from letting go of past wrongs and embracing forgiveness, even amidst the chaos of love and other nonsense.