Time To Give

White Lies' song "Time To Give" delves into the intricate dynamics of a long-term relationship that has reached a point of stagnation and frustration. The lyrics paint a picture of a couple who have been together for over fifteen years, and despite their shared history, they find themselves at a crossroads. The opening lines, "You turn to me, I say: What's there to talk about? Over fifteen years we’ve talked about it all," suggest a sense of exhaustion and the feeling that all possible conversations have already been had. This sets the stage for a deeper exploration of the emotional and psychological toll that such a prolonged relationship can take on both individuals involved.

The recurring line, "If you've got the mind to leave, then pick a topic to talk about," highlights the tension between wanting to stay and the urge to leave. It suggests that the act of talking, or perhaps the lack thereof, has become a battleground for the couple. The protagonist acknowledges their own flaws, admitting, "I can ruin a day, and I know I do," which adds a layer of self-awareness and vulnerability to the narrative. The mention of "eternity" and the willingness to "lose it all for you" indicates a deep, albeit conflicted, commitment to the relationship.

The song also touches on broader themes such as the passage of time and the inevitability of change. Lines like "Sell the house but still keep the home" and "You know kids grow up and they’ll pin the blame on you" reflect the complexities of maintaining a sense of stability and identity within a long-term relationship. The closing lines, "Nobody cares if you've got time to give, it's just an endless hole that you're falling in," convey a sense of hopelessness and the feeling that despite all efforts, the relationship may be beyond repair. This poignant ending leaves the listener contemplating the emotional cost of staying in a relationship that no longer brings joy or fulfillment.