If This Is Love

Xavier Omär's song "If This Is Love" delves into the complexities and disillusionments of a romantic relationship that has lost its essence. The lyrics open with a questioning tone, asking why the couple is wasting time if the relationship is not fulfilling. Omär emphasizes the need for mutual respect and better communication, highlighting that he deserves to be treated with dignity and care. The repeated plea for better treatment underscores a sense of self-worth and the realization that he could thrive independently.

The chorus, with its poignant lines "Hold me tight, Don't let go, Ease my mind, Keep me close," reflects a desperate attempt to cling to the remnants of the relationship. However, this is juxtaposed with the realization that the love being offered is subjective and not reflective of true, reciprocal affection. Omär's declaration, "If this is love, I don't want it, I don't need it, I could live without it," serves as a powerful rejection of a love that is conditional and unfulfilling.

Throughout the song, Omär questions his efforts and sacrifices, asking if he hasn't done enough to make the relationship work. The rhetorical questions, "Ain't I?" repeated multiple times, reveal his frustration and the imbalance in the relationship. He points out the hypocrisy of his partner's expectations, which do not apply to them. This realization leads to a firm stance of self-preservation, as he decides that he does not want a love that is fake and one-sided. The song ultimately conveys a message of self-respect and the courage to walk away from a toxic relationship.